The power is In Between ⚡

One of the most powerful things I do with my clients

(and with myself)

is to get free from Either/Or, Black-and-White thinking.

You know:

Either I'm staying in the marriage

Or I'm leaving the marriage.

Either I'm raising my prices

Or I'm leaving them the same.

Either I'm cleaning the house

Or the house is messy chaos.

Either I'm saying Yes

Or I'm saying No.

Take a moment to consider:

where are you weighing an Either/Or?

And then ask this magic question:

What's In Between?

Because there are a lot of options between staying in a marriage and leaving it.

Because you can, really, both raise your prices AND keep them the same.

Because you are not, in fact, the only one who can clean a house.

Because there's

“Yes, but . . .”

and

“Yes, and . . .”

and

“Actually, I have a different idea.”

Asking “What's In Between?” sparks your creativity,

and gets your mind working on a puzzle, rather than pinballing between two limited and limiting options.

Really:

You have so many options.

You just need to create them.

love,

Natalie

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