Wands up, witches, to conjure your dream life.
Hello lovelies,
Perhaps my very favorite life coach magic trick
is this question:
How do you want to FEEL?
Why is it magic?
Because when we're super clear
on how we want to feel,
and when we learn to conjure that feeling,
we start to take action toward creating an everyday life
that is full -
more than full, actually -
REDOLENT
of that feeling.
Read that again:
being clear and intent on the feeling you want
is what creates a life full of that feeling.
NOT the other way around.
Let's say you want to feel powerful.
Conventional wisdom says,
"Well, when you get that promotion and raise,
then you'll feel powerful."
The powerful feeling comes FIRST.
That's what gets you the promotion and raise.
YEP.
Okay, so let's imagine you want to feel peaceful.
Conventional wisdom says,
"When I get to the other side of this stressful project,
and when things calm down at home,
then I'll feel peaceful."
Um, no.
Every project will be stressful,
if you are stressed.
And things will never calm down at home,
until you do.
So start here:
by getting super clear on the vibe you want.
How do you want to FEEL this fall?
And then illustrate,
in your fucking amazing mind,
what that looks like.
For me, this fall I want to feel POTENT.
When I imagine myself potent, I see a woman who eats and sleeps well.
Who lifts weights 4x/ week.
Who works with focus.
Who plans her day, and sticks to that plan.
Who is present with her kids, her friends, her clients.
Who manifests her ideas into realities.
Who practices exquisite self-care.
Who sits down to write.
Who inspires and helps her fellow travelers
to make the most of their own wild & precious lives.
Oh hey.
Here I am.
Doing just that.
Your turn.